If I think of it as just another in a chain of entertaining Family Dinners with NUin, it was a great night. If I think of it as Thanksgiving, it makes me a bit sad.
For the first time, our students realized that the people back home may be happier than they are. It’s also possible that this was the first time they were right. Many students’ families were able to come, but not all. I think this made it that much harder on those who had no visitors. Unlike a regular day, some students did have people to make them less homesick.
As for me, I couldn’t believe there was a Thanksgiving bigger than my dad’s side, which clocked in at 89 people this year (I would have been number 90!) But alas, around 200 people filled the hall on ACT’s high school campus. Of course, since it’s not a holiday in Greece, this came after a full day of work and school for Team Greece, which certainly added to the mood. Also, I know it sounds silly, but not being able to relax and enjoy a glass of wine or a beer with my Thanksgiving dinner was a pain. I understand why there are rules, but it was our job to spend all day and evening Wednesday and Thursday with our students, thereby disallowing us from a time to fully relax and enjoy the holiday.
Perhaps my favorite part was the contributions of our students. Armaan and Vitaly played piano while we ate, Ben sang “Home” and made half the room cry. There was going to be a prayer at dinner anyway (since when is Thanksgiving a Christian holiday?), so we went for the all-inclusive approach and opened the floor to our students. A few said a Jewish prayer intended for the first time a person does something–like the first time a person has Thanksgiving in Greece. We also had a few stripes of Christian prayer, and Sultan rounded things out with a spur of the moment Muslim contribution. I only wish he had slowed down and translated it for the rest of us.
Another highlight of the was how classy and respectful our students were. I’m totally impressed by the way they handled some disputes playing football, not having enough room on the bus, and a few non-NUin people giving them a hard time. Any woman who can handle being called the C-word (for absolutely no reason, not that that even matters) by calmly removing herself from the situation is a mature person in my book. We also had tons of our students calmly, respectfully, voluntarily leave the bus so other students could have their seats, even though many of those who offered up their seats had guaranteed spots on the bus and gave them to those who shouldn’t have been on it in the first place.ACT Staff, study abroad students, NUin kids and us.
To end on a good note, one of the very best parts of our Thanksgiving was that Danny Tierney, one of our students, organized an 8-team football tournament. He had cones, a med kit and a well-lit field. At least 63 people played, and easily that many people came just to watch, ranging from ACT and NUin staff to student families and Greek students.
While the food certainly left something to be desired (food should never be mistaken for both cranberry sauce AND gravy), the company and our hosts did everything they could to make a dreary day a lot more fun. The bottom line for me, though, was that I really hate missing holidays back home, and a fun workday is still a workday.